Homesickness

Whether you’re going to college an hour away from your family or in another state or country, there’s a large chance you’re going to be a little homesick.

Going to college is very exciting and a little stressful, especially on move in day. If your friends and/or family is helping you move in to college, try not to get too stressed out and take it out on them. We know it may be one of those easier said than done things, but honestly- enjoy the time with them and don’t take your stress out on them. Enjoy every minute of move in day because when your family leaves, homesickness and loneliness may hit you right away. College isn’t a bad thing, however, especially if you’re going farther away from home. In fact, it is quite an exciting time that you should take advantage of and not be scared of because you are going away from home.

Visit your family as often as you can. Whether you’re an hour away from home and can visit every week or every other week, take advantage of being so close to them. Visiting your family and friends back home once in a while will make the days when you can’t be with them a little bit easier.

Call home – don’t just text. Texting is easy and allows you constant contact with your family and friends which is nice, but it is also nice to hear a loved one’s voice on the phone. When you’re having a rough day, hearing your parents, siblings or best friend’s voice on the phone may be what helps you get through it.

Bring photos of family and friends from home to put up in your dorm room. Having them on your phone may not be enough. Keep a couple pictures of your loved ones somewhere in your dorm room. Above your desk, next to your dorm bed- wherever you feel it will help you most.

Most importantly, remember you’re not alone - you’re not the only college student at your college that is away from home. In fact, every one in your dorm is away from home! Make friends in your residence hall and be there for each other when there are exceptionally tough days. Don't forget your old friends from back home, but don't be afraid to make new ones. You're in the same situation as the rest of the incoming college freshmen which allows you to share the experience and have someone to vent or talk with.